Crisis, which isn't

There is a special feeling when you cross 20 years, you feel that you know everything in this world but things change drastically and life teaches you everything and makes you understand that you don’t know anything.

You end your college life, the happiest years of your life and enter into a world where you are totally unfamiliar with, people who are cruel yet successful, harsh yet most loved, good looking but arrogant, calm yet stubborn, ugly yet so charming; this world has place for everyone and the people whom you meet are decided by fate but people with whom you could be with is decided by you so make sure you choose the right ones.

When you cross 20, life would be so confusing and the most confusing part is your relationship status. You might be still single or in a relationship or about to be broken up or your relationship is as confusing as my thoughts so you say ‘It’s complicated’ and never care a fuck about it.

When you are in a relationship, life doesn’t get easy; you fear about how your partner’s family and your family accept and get along well as you both did. When you aren’t in a relationship it gets even tougher. Whenever you see a couple passing by your side, you could sense your stomach burning; you begin to doubt yourself whether a girl would be born in this world for you or you will remain longing for love till the end. Whenever you see a romantic song, you imagine yourself in that song along with your dream girl to get interrupted by someone and end your daydream.

On the other hand, this is the period where we have to get settled in our lives, get into some corporate without giving a thought of what you really want in your life. Your 10^th 12^th certificate gets locked up along with your music instrument, diaries, small poem which you would have written trying to amuse your crush. The only thing that you long for is to get into an MNC and update your facebook status and work place.

Your school and college friends are in the same boat as you are without knowing what to do. You hardly meet each other. A call or a whatsapp message makes you wonder how life has changed. There is no longer “THE GANG”, the happiness of just being together, those long queues in college canteen, those last bench gossips, those 1000rs nokia mobiles; which you fear that you may get caught while you text during class hours.

But I’ll say you are on the right track if you had a broken heart, a missed MNC company, rejected, fought with your dear ones, lost few of your best friend, cheated someone and or being cheated; You are now better equipped to survive this world for the rest of your life.

Love the person whom you see daily in the mirror, sing your heart out even if people laugh about it, write your stories even if no one acknowledges it, work hard in dark even if no one spots you, after all it’s your life and you have to life it with all that you got, so live a life which you be proud of when you look back 20 years from now.

Make sure that you spread happiness and remembered for good!!!!