The Red pant

One of the most difficult things in life is to mange criticism and being a short tempered person doesn't help it either. When someone says something about you, you get this Rage burning inside you and you feel like slapping them hard and say it on their face ‘How the fuck does it affect you’. There is a thin line between criticizing for the betterment and criticizing for degrading, one need to understand that prior to reading this.

On the eve of New Year, I wore the new dress which I bought. I bought a Red cargo jean (It’s the coolest one I ever bought, I’m saying it myself since everyone had a different opinion); I had been dying to get it since ages.

I wore the Red cargo jean along with a while polo T-shirt and went out for a long walk to get some fresh air. Almost everyone who went past by my side looked at me like a person coming from other planet (maybe they thought that I was like Aamir khan in PK, but I wore my dress unlike him). Everyone looked at me for few more seconds than they should have and some even giggled looking at me. I looked at myself, I looked perfectly fine, and there was nothing wrong in me.

If I had started counting the number of eyes that rolled at me, the number of stars in the universe would go less. There was a middle aged lady who crossed by my side. She said something within herself but it was so loud that I could hear her, ‘Enda kalam pasangaluku edu fashion nu kuda teriyamatingudu, paka poriki mariye erukan’.

I heard her say that but I never bothered to give her an explanation for the things I wore. I really don’t know why people tend to judge strangers just by their looks. Just because I had a long hair, had a dark complexion, wore a red pant below my waist line could make people judge that I am an asshole. This goes to middle aged lady who told that, ‘Dear Aunty, I am not going to marry your daughter and hence I don’t care of what you think of me. Just because you said something about me doesn't make me go home and change to something which you like’

We all have a tendency to judge people but before you judge anyone remember that when you judge it’s just your opinion, not the reality. The danger of judging is we judge someone and believe in what we have judged which often contradicts with reality.

Though I have very less hopes about people being less judgmental, but I really hope that there would be less eyes staring at me when I wore a yellow pant next time around.

                                                    !!!!!!Happy New Year Everyone!!!!!!